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Some of the tools and templates that we use when mentoring are available for free download using the links below. The proper use and interpretation of the results from these tools are fully explained in The Solution for Marriages.

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Chapter 2: The First Meeting with Your Mentees

Couple Consent Form for Marriage Mentoring – pdf
Couple Mentoring Plan – pdf
Emotional, Relational, Spiritual & Physical Questionnaire – Engaged – (premium content)
Emotional, Relational, Spiritual & Physical Questionnaire – Married – (premium content)

Chapter 4: Managing and Coping with Stress

Life Events and Stress – (premium content)

Chapter 6: Communication

          Communication Style – pdf

Chapter 10: Financial Management

Monthly Income & Expenses – xls
Questions to Discuss About Finances – (premium content)
Biblical Principles of Financial Management – (premium content)
Meaning of Money Assessment – (premium content)

Chapter 16: Breaking Free from Pornography

A Five-Step Process for Overcoming Pornography – pdf
Boundaries & Accountability for Mentees – (premium content)

Chapter 18: Family of Origin

Circumplex Model – (premium content)

Chapter 20: Handling Cultural Differences

Cultural Identity Map – pdf
Holiday Planning Matrix – (premium content)

Chapter 24: Biblical Roles of Husbands and Wives

Biblical Roles Worksheet – (premium content)

Chapter 26: Spiritual Beliefs & Developing a Personal Relationship with Christ

How to Have a Personal Relationship with Jesus Christ – pdf

Chapter 31: Remarriage

Questions Before Considering Remarriage – (premium content)

Supplemental Materials for Mentors

How to Develop a Lay Marriage Mentoring Ministry – pdf
Mentor Program Evaluation – pdf | doc
Mentors Letter to Parents – (premium content)
Protecting Your Ministry From Spiritual Disaster – (premium content)
How Relationships are Impacted by Cohabitation – (premium content)
Topics to Discuss When Mentoring Military Couples – (premium content)
Certificate of Completion – (premium content)
State Marriage Handbooks (USA) – pdf